Published in LivingLifeLite·Jan 7Member-onlyThe #1 Reason Why You Don’t Accept Yourself YetMy journey toward self-acceptance has been mired in hate. When I was younger, I despised the fact that I was Black American. I couldn’t stand how I grew up. My parents were super religious. It felt like the whole world was judging me. When I discovered that I was gay…Life Lessons3 min readLife Lessons3 min read
Published in LivingLifeLite·Dec 28, 2022Member-onlyThe So-Called Body-Positive Movement Is Dangerous for Young PeopleI’ve struggled with self-acceptance since being a teenager. While growing up, many times I’d stare at myself in the mirror, absolutely hating what I saw looking back at me. You see, I grew up Black American in a mostly white society. I hated that my skin was darker, and the…Self Improvement2 min readSelf Improvement2 min read
Published in LivingLifeLite·Dec 22, 2022Member-onlyThere Should Be No Shame Around Race (White People Included)I hated the fact that I was black growing up. You see, I grew up in an all-white area. And I wanted to be just like my peers. The way I looked and sounded was different from them. It drove me crazy. Fast forward to present day. Now that I’m…Race Relations2 min readRace Relations2 min read
Published in LivingLifeLite·Dec 15, 2022Member-onlyThe Dream Life of Being a Digital Nomad Is Actually a MythPerhaps becoming a digital nomad is a dream of yours. It was one of mine for years. I’d read enticing blog posts and watch vlogs from my favorite YouTubers. Daily I’d do visualization exercises in order to help my dream manifest into reality. …Travel5 min readTravel5 min read
Published in LivingLifeLite·Mar 14, 2022Member-onlyMake Your Habit Change Stick by Doing This One ThingFor years I tried to make habits stick. But there was always a brick wall that made me go back to square one. Finally, after lots of trial and error, I found a way to build positive habits that stuck — for good. Simple and easy is the way to go Back in the day, I made my…Habits4 min readHabits4 min read
Published in LivingLifeLite·Mar 10, 2022Member-onlyNow It’s Clear That Our Last Bits of Freedom Are Being Stripped AwayBack in 2019, I didn’t think much about freedom. At the time, I lived in NYC. My days were filled with chasing money or resting from chasing money. I was on a never-ending hamster wheel We are born free Along with millions of others, suddenly I found myself sitting alone in my bedroom with…Politics3 min readPolitics3 min read
Published in LivingLifeLite·Feb 22, 2022Member-onlyFasting Times Are Not Something To Worry AboutNight after night, I sat in my room furiously reading articles about fasting. I just wasn’t sure if it would work for me. There were so many ways to approach it. And I had many reservations about whether it would work or not. Finally, one night I had enough. A…Health4 min readHealth4 min read
Published in Change Your Mind Change Your Life·Feb 11, 2022Member-onlyHeal Trauma by Using These 4 MethodsFor years I held on to my trauma. The result? My life was filled with toxicity. Toxic friends. A toxic job. And worst of all, the toxic thoughts I let run in my head rampant. Life was one brick wall. I was going nowhere fast. Until I started to let…Spiritual Growth4 min readSpiritual Growth4 min read
Published in LivingLifeLite·Feb 10, 2022Member-only3 Ways To Avoid the Trap of Self-ComparisonThe other day I got caught in the self-comparison trap. As I was scrolling on LinkedIn, every post was about a person doing great — winning at life. I started to feel like crap. My humdrum life paled in comparison to what my feed thrust into my face. Quickly I…Self Improvement3 min readSelf Improvement3 min read
Published in LivingLifeLite·Feb 4, 2022Member-onlyThis Is the Best Way To Create More Self-LoveMany of us struggle with self-love. And I don’t mean ego-narcissistic love. That’s built on conditions. But the deep unconditional love all of us need — like a breath of air. Pick a small self-love practice to do daily For years I didn’t love myself very much. In fact, I downright hated myself most of the time. I…Love3 min readLove3 min read